NOTHING WILL THREATEN THE SECURITY OF YOUR MARRIAGE QUITE LIKE YOUR SPOUSE THINKING THAT THERE MIGHT BE ANOTHER PERSON COMPETING FOR YOUR ATTENTION AND HEART. OUTSIDE COMPETITION SHOULD NEVER BE ALLOWED. You’re spouse doesn’t want to be you’re #1, they want to be your only one! This is a great example of what’s in your “MARRIAGE GO BAG”? You have to be proactive and be diligent with not letting your marriage bleed out. You need to ask yourself, do I have anything in my life or in the house that if my spouse saw it, it would crush them emotionally? Old letters, old pics or clothes that your ex bought you that makes your spouse uncomfortable or jealous. Marriages become stagnant and backslides when we cause the other to feel unloved and not desired, (the only one). This makes people unhappy. Then comes the “ (we’re just not happy anymore)” comment. You must consider the others feelings. It doesn’t matter if it’s silly to you. If it means something to them, you attend to it immediately. Hurt feelings cause irreparable damage at times.