There is a big discrepancy with being a nice guy and a good man. Nice guys are soft, passive and non confrontational. They don’t lead well. They don’t turn boys into men. Nice men are great followers. They are poor husbands and are not masculine. They cannot protect and guard anyone. They are selfish. When they get mad or upset they sulk and gossip. Eventually to stab you in the back. Basically they can’t be counted on. Good men are great leaders. They are masculine and are not afraid of confrontation. They are great husbands and fathers. They serve their families and communities. Great men are formidable and have the capacity to be violent when protecting their wives, family and anyone in their area of influence. They have the ability to be savages. They also have this power but keep it under control and rarely use it. Good men are “SAVAGE SERVANTS!” They put the needs of others before their own. They rule with humility. This is the original design.